why hold a grudge for something like that? if your going to hold a grudge, make it worth wild.

My french teacher gave us this advice today, while inadvertently trying to tell us a joke he inspired me to tell you this; Grudges suck. They don't bring enjoyment from you, they just stop you from having it. So why do we do this?
Well, if we delve into the human mind, we find that we all really like to make people feel bad. I do this too, right now, I could be making you feel really bad about yourself. But are you holding a grudge? NO. People are like sand paper, they scratch you and hurt you, but in the end, your the one that comes out shiny and polished. They're one hand that sculpts you, and your attitude is the other. You choose how you react to their teasing. If you hold a grudge your just getting angry about useless things, and when you get angry then your wasting energy. Plus, no one wakes up in the morning wants to be angry. I don't care if someone shot your mother. Don't be angry, thats not going to change anything at all. Instead, channel your anger into something else, into like a crime prevention program so your step mom doesn't get mad again.

So stop being an ass hole and grow up. Get over yourself and move on, because even though you don't know where your going, the oath may already be under your feet.
~Really?

Be yourself. No one will like you anyways.

Might as well. People won't like the fake you, and you won't like the fake you. So if you act you, at least you like yourself.

Wait. Wait. Wait. So your saying you hate the way you look? Really? So does every other girl in the world, and possibly the guys.
And another thing, your not fat. Your you. Where in your name does it say fat? Check. See, no where. Your not fat. So stop whining in your self pity and grow up, the world doesn't revolve around you and your feelings. Sure, sometimes you need to talk, and I'll talk to you if you have no one, but seriously? No body needs a friend who only talks about their problems and doesn't ask about theirs'.

Also, do what you love, do what you can, and do it how you want. Because why does it matter what other people do that influences you in your life? Personally, I love warrior cats, and I love to talk to people about them. My whole family thinks its weird that I do, my friends do too, but I have a lot of fun reading the books and talking to people on line about them. I don't care if you do the dance and your a guy, football (the American sport) if your a girl. Really, who cares anyways. Do what you love.

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Really?



You are you, that is truer than true. There is no on alive who is youer than you.